
I am from the swaying trees
The memoir is about a woman named Amy Cohen who has had either bad luck, or just a horrible life. Amy has been in so many relationships, that it’s so hard to count all of them. Every time she dates a guy, she sees them going further than they really will. She thinks of them as the “one for her” and that’s when the guy breaks up with her. She realizes that she’ll just be hurt every time and stays away from love. Now she is in her mid-50’s she has become attached to this one man, and they end up getting married with her saying “I do” confidently.
I think that this book was very well put because I could see how hard her life was. I could see that she was the one trying so hard to stay together with all of the guys, but somehow they thought of her effort as a bother. This book made me learn that just because you’re desperate; it doesn’t mean you should rush into another relationship. Give love time, and it’ll come to you.
The title reflects on how she struggled through most of her life but in the end she gets everything back together. She became even better than she was before. The title of the memoir is actually very important to give a hint about the plot. The title makes the reader think “What happens in this book? I’m going to take this book because it sounds interesting.” The title makes the reader curious about what the book could be about. The title helps move the plot as well because the reader will have the title in the back of their mind while they read.
This book was organized as beads on a string because she goes from one time to another time. She describes how she feels each time and clearly shows her thoughts by her actions. In the book there aren’t many dates and there are no exact times. She shows how she feels so much that you feel like you know her already.
The memoirist came to know that she was being too self-centered about some things. How she wanted a wedding with some people and didn’t consider the other person. She didn’t think about her mother as much as her mother thought of her. She thought that everything her friends said was either from their pity or that they were trying to sympathize with her.
Lines We Love:
“Maybe, after all these years, I finally understood what my mother meant when she said, “People who want to be married are married.””
“I was sad, but I was functioning—eating, sleeping—which was so unlike me.”